how many times a week?

I stopped giving a shit- that means no one else is required to do so, either.

Those are voluntary, I imagine. Nonogamy is something you suddenly realize was thrust upon you after it's too late.

But why bandy with semantics? Imma gonna leave this hyar:

 

I still find the 'week' measurement amusing.
Wrong time and place for such things in my life. After a few years without it becomes the 'norm'.

 

Lately, for me it's been averaging out to about 4 or 5. Wish it were more, but I'm just happy to be having sex again! The drought is over.

 

Let's just say I can't even remember the last time I had sex

 

once a week, but I remember the days of past........

 

I try not to think about what was and what is. So far it hasn't worked.

 

Extenuating circumstances,

bad situations after bad situations, she had trust issues to begin with...
baggage man, just her baggage. I'm ready to take life by the horns and ride, she's been whimpering in a corner waiting for it to stop kicking her ass (and it already has, she's getting things in life she never had before, like happiness, and she also got her first car at 22 years old [it's a 1974 Plymouth Duster in awesome condition and she got it for a steal!])

But nope... now it's 3 months after that and i'm getting tired of feeling like I have to bug her to do something that she should want to do by just loving me. I love her and want to be near and intimate in that way, she just doesn't seem to do it for the same purpose PLUS the whole life thing on top of that.

i'm literally days from a major life decision with this girl.
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Where can a man hope to find such a woman! If I got that out of the way in the morning I'd feel like I had the green berets at my back, stored in one little lady at my side!

 

We went from a sexless marriage to what we call "the abundance model." The more she gets, the more she wants.

And she will be 60 soon. (Me, too, of course, a few months later.)

 

We usually average 1-2 times a week, I think. We have two small children and she works late two nights a week, so the urge to sleep is often stronger than everything else.
But.. My wife recently came up with a 20-day challenge. At first, the challenge was to have sex EVERY day for twenty days, but we quickly felt that it became more of a pressure than pleasure. So we changed it to a "how many days out of twenty CAN we do it?". Considering she had her period during this period(wich is not a problem, just less spontaneous), eleven times was a way better result than we had thought.
And it was good.
Really damn good.
I think something about knowing we would do it again pretty soon made us go beyond what we know works best, and try all kinds of new, filthy, ungodly stuff.
We were pretty open with eachother, sexually, right from the start, so finding new stuff to do after ten years is pretty amazing. I cannot recommend this enough!

 

None. Back to the drought. Dammit. Dammit. Dammit.

 

Welcome to my world. Sorry