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Do you keep secrets about sex from your spouse?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by Guppy, Nov 9, 2014.

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  1. omega

    omega Very Tilted

    Color me intrigued from the last two posts.
     
    omega, Nov 13, 2014
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  2. Cayvmann

    Cayvmann Very Tilted

    Location:
    Central North Carolina
    Is it a secret when she doesn't want to know anything about it???
     
    Cayvmann, Nov 13, 2014
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  3. Herculite

    Herculite Very Tilted

    I think there are two types of sex secrets.

    1 - Things you've done.
    2 - Things you would like to do.

    Keeping #1 secret I think can be a good thing. My wife and I haven't but we didn't do very much prior to getting together.

    #2 for the most part can be sad when you don't tell your partner. I wonder how many couples out there have the exact same fantasy but are afraid their spouse would freak out and never tell each other about it?
     
    Herculite, Dec 5, 2014
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  4. Katia

    Katia Very Tilted

    Location:
    Earth
    Sometimes fantasies are better left in your head. I've had some play out and well..
    What's that old saying? "The book is always better?" Yeah, sorta like that, but not every time.
     
    Katia, Dec 31, 2014
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  5. MISSLEZLEY

    misslezley New Member

    I'm not sure if my bf keeps secrets from me ... Prolly about masterbation cuz he works in camp ... I asked if there is ne gd looking women working there but he never responded.. Because of my ugly wonders I decided to have secrets of my own jus so I don't feel too bad .. I wish I knew what he was really doing so it can bring comfort to my mind.. But ikno it won't happen... If only I knew I would stop what I'm doing. Smh I love him too much.
     
    misslezley, Jan 12, 2015
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  6. MLH205

    MLH205 New Member

    Sigh. If only he was even remotely interested...
     
    MLH205, Jan 26, 2015
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  7. RedSneaker

    RedSneaker Very Tilted

    I had a man like that. I had to cut him loose!

    But I think everyone has a secret or two. I don't think that's unusual at all. And it doesn't mean you're necessarily being deceptive. But my fantasies are fantasies for a reason.
     
    RedSneaker, Jan 26, 2015
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  8. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Well...your secrets are being revealed...even those you hide from yourself.
    Searching for Sex

    A great article showing the trends and patterns of what people are looking for in SEX.

    Not crazy sex.
    Just normal things that most don't have the answers for.
    Or at least about their own doubts.

    BOTH men & women.
    Women are worried about their boobs. (because men are into them..."enhancing" them with implants)
    Men are worried about their dicks. (which women don't care about, except if they are too BIG - stats trend notes, not me)

    Basically saying that everyone LIES
    including to themselves.

    But, what everyday searches in the wanderings and woes of our REAL minds...can't hide what is affecting us...and what really concerns us.

    It's actually quite fascinating.

    If we could share our secrets, get over our anxieties, our fears, our guilt...
    then we could start having MORE sex and BETTER sex.
     
    Last edited: Jan 26, 2015
    rogue49, Jan 26, 2015
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  9. Street Pattern

    Street Pattern Very Tilted

    Location:
    The American Midwest
    Um, no. Here's what the article says about that:
    That means a little less than 60 percent of complaints about penis size go in the other direction.
     
    Street Pattern, Jan 26, 2015
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  10. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    I see sexual secrets as "Things you've done."

    Early teenage experimentation is a good example. Does your spouse/SO/current partner need to know what you did as a young teenager? Unless there is a truly compelling reason, say medical issues that need to be explained, I say no.
     
    Chris Noyb, Jan 27, 2015
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  11. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect

    Location:
    At work..
    Lets just say that ive known my wife since we were 10 and there are some things that she dosent know
     
    ralphie250, Feb 3, 2015
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