How common is your sexual fantasy?

This article is very interesting: How common is your sexual fantasy? - Health News - Health & Families - The Independent

Note the table which lists 55 sexual fantasies broken down by male and female respondents who say they've had each one. There are very few fantasies (at least on that list) which are not typical or common. I personally am happy to know that over one third of women fantasize about sex with someone much older than them! Which is the flip side of the two thirds of men who fantasize about sex with someone much younger (but legal) then they. Group sex, public sex, sex with strangers - lots and lots of people share those, some of my personal faves. What do you all think?

 

Odd that the study "highlighted" this, yet omitted it from the statistical table.

 

This is really a short list. Having sex with a pregnant woman?
Role playing? Swapping gender role playing? Sex toys besides the standard vibrator ?

The list could go on and on?

 

I was, I suppose, a tad surprised that a couple of mine fell into the more common range, between 60 & 80%. One or two were pretty rare, though. Looks like 13% was my lowest score.

 

I never considered or thought of masturbating an unknown person. If it was a female for me, that would be pretty hot.

I think there is a big difference between what I find arousing in fantasies compared to what I would like to experience in reality. I'm not sure how this survey broke that down.

And I don't really want to 'abuse' a random girl who is drunk, asleep, or unconscious. I would never do that. But, if I had a longtime girlfriend sleeping next to me, then having sex without waking her up first would be something I would be interested in doing.

The "Forced to have sex" fantasy is a tricky one with the rape problem today. However, I like the fantasy that there is some attractive girl out there who is obsessed with me, and would want to prove she is good in bed so we could be a happy couple after we had amazing sex. So she would do whatever she needed to do in order to restrain me and do all the work in female dominate positions. It would be even hotter if I kind of knew the girl. But, I totally understand if the genders were reversed, this would be a very bad crime.

This survey could be expanded to include a lot more topics. And it brings up the question of, "can you have a happy sex life, if your partner won't participate in what you fantasize about?"

 

It all comes down to that word fantasy.
Most women I know have a very rich fantasy life but might be hesitant to carry them out it in real life.

So of those 3 out of 5 maybe only 1 out of 5 is really ready to go for it.

 

Mine, when viewed as a group, are fairly uncommonish.

 

Even so, that's 20% (or more) of women who think about group sex! If only there was a way to know what people are thinking about just by looking at them. Which maybe is a bad idea, on second thought.
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This is a signal of how diverse and interesting and kind of glorious humans can be. Here are 55 scenarios, and yet we are noting that "ours" isn't on the list, and that it is a short list. I mean, how long could this list be? Endless, I suppose.

 

I think when it comes to sexual fantasy, common is in fact better. If you were the only one fantasizing about something, odds are you have a problem.

 

my sexual fantasy's are probably not that uncommon but a bit abnormal.

Mostly involve rescuing women with acts of barbaric violence (like a girl is being held hostage by terrorists, I murder all of the terrorists with a butcher's knife or perhaps a 18 inch length of copper piping and the butt of a handgun, I probably get a couple of flesh wounds, she then bandages my shoulder and falls asleep resting her head on my chest)