Do you ever think about your past lusts/crushes/exs?

In a sexual way do you think about them ?

Do you ever wish you did something sexually you hadn't ...or found out something like maybe one of them is into what you're into sexually and you were young and innocent then but as you got older you missed out just bc distance/change etc ?

Idk I still would get with all my exs and I left most them ...actually think all lol but Idk I stayed friends with them all and I'm very lustful but with a gf I had to space myself ..and they slowly disappeared and now I wish I could get in touch again ..

Honestly wish I could end up finding them on websites like this and meet up again after years (knew them from 8th grade to college..)

Sometimes thinkn of someone I know is better than porn .. I know it's sort of pathetic lol

Anyone else still willing to mess with exs/crushes or the ones you couldn't get for whatever reason?

Here's a dare for those who are bold I guess lol if allowed mention names and wishes ...

Jessy,steph,Kelly,Tara,Monica,Rebekah ,Rebecca , Katie , kelsey , Tiffany , Danielle , Katrina,

Oddly no real regrets just timing wise ..

Anyone else have these feelings and such happen? Lol

 

Yup I know the feeling except I knew at the time the girl liked me but ..

Thnx for responding btw I bet I could of worded it better but my script (adderall) is messing with me the past 2 days ..can't word things like I would like to lol .

Ok I explained this to my gf recently ...I'm not shy bc I doubt myself I'm shy bc I'm not sure..like if I like a girl idk if I want to date them and if I ask them I'm sometimes more afraid do them saying yes bc back then I was very very lustful ..never forced anything , I waited as long as a girl wanted before we did whatever but I was always willing..but dating u never liked the idea of carrying on to know someone and them know me more ..it was more attraction than wanting to date lol ..

 

One woman from high school.
We hard these odd moments together where it was like we were looking into each others souls.
Not the teenage, hormone driven stuff, we never went that far, but the kind of intimacy that is so personal that you are laid bare.
She was older than me and I had this weird being twice my age one minute and half my the next thing going on.
I think I hurt her once or twice and she decided that the timing wasn't ever going to be right.

I still think about those moments though.

 

I have fond memories of a couple of exes but that's what they shall remain.
I'm happily married, and content with the memories.

 

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People fantasize about the things they can't have. Perfectly natural.

It's a convenient diversion. I do it all the time. Being bored in hotel rooms leads to it.

Most of the former lovers I had were absolutely dynamite in the sack and thus the occasional racy fantasy.

I don't, however, have fantasies about building a life with them. It was made clear in several cases all they were good at is fucking.

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One of my coworkers once said that he likes to pull up the sex pictures of his exes on his desktop and look at them all at the same time. "Time warp orgy."

 

Just one gal. It's been a few years but she still crosses my mind more often than i'd like to admit. [/"the one that got away" rant]

 

I think back on all the wonderful women who have been intimate with me over the last 40 years, and right now I feel only love and gratitude.

Okay, maybe some lust, too.

 

Sure, I think about exes, past flings and hookups, past crushes, missed opportunities. Strangers. Friends. Lots of my wife's friends (she has an awesome track record for picking hot friends). Some of my in-law relations. Cousins. Former students (the adult ones, of course, not the underage ones!). Former teachers. Former classmates. Coworkers past and present. Congregants.

I will think about (and spank about) pretty much any even vaguely attractive female between the ages of 18 and 65 that I have ever encountered.

Of course, that doesn't mean I would actually act on any of those thoughts. Just that I look and fantasize very broadly.

 

I don't have a large group of exes, but there are mainly two ladies I think about when fantasizing.
One we (wife and I) met on line and had a couple of romantic encounters with. That would be lovely to re-enact, but impossible due to distance and her upgrading to husband 2.0.

The other one is a dear friend of us, ex-wife of my co-worker. I've had the hots for her for ages, and we share a very special bond. The attraction is mutual, but so is the respect. Beside heavy flirting nothing has, and will happen - but at least I can dream of it

This will probably sound dull, but even though I sometimes fantasize about these women, my wife is my "daily" fantasy.

 

Frequently, especially three girls I knew from high school.

One was a "good girl," a devout Christian who pretty and had a figure that turned heads. We had a totally platonic friendship that might have gone somewhere I had not been a clueless pothead.

The other was a "bad girl" who had a checkered past. She ran away from home with another bad girl and was gone for over a year. There were many rumors about what happened, the main one being they worked as prostitutes. She returned to finish high school and we became good friends. She had a boyfriend a few years older, and never expressed any sexual interest in me, and I never made a move on her. It's possible (not sure how probable) that she might have given me a pity fuck if I'd played my cards right, but I know that I would've fallen in love with her and it would've been onesided.

The third girl was also a "bad girl." We were good friends, but her core group of friends were serious thugs and I definately didn't fit in with them. She had her head screwed on straight.

I often wonder what happened to them; hopefully everything worked out great for them.

 

Like my old pal Timon says, "You gotta put your behind, in your past"... Or something like that.

I only know of one that I regretted losing, and I left her, for her own good. Long distances and she wasn't quite over the ex yet. I occasionally think about her, but don't entertain it too much. From what I hear she's doing great with her husband and has at least on kid now. I hope her life is great.

The rest of them I don't wish any sorrow on them, but I don't really think about them at all.

 

I think about a few of them when Im "having quiet alone time" and then once Im done I just go about my day and dont think of them again.....until the next time.
Theres guys I would likely "re visit " if the chance came up.........but Im looking for someone new in my life. The past is not always a good place to hang around.

 

I think of some of them daily, a couple of them sexually. I dont wish to go back though - Im pretty happy the ways things are.

 

Sure, I think of my former relationships. That said, I can't think of a time I've ever fantasized about them in a sexual way, at least not in the past several years.

 

I wonder frequently what ever happened to my first real GF. She just kind of disappeared from school and I never heard what happened or where she went. Then there is one other I dated in High School. I would love just to see her face again. Not any hopes of anything other than to see what they look like these days...

 

I am friends with most of them on Facebook so there isn't much mystery there or ability to fantasize, given I know too much about them still.

The ones that are "think worthy" are ones I don't have any visibility into their lives now. Very curious about a couple of girls that I was too introverted to do anything about.

 

I occasionally think of some past sexual experiences. It is more a thought about the past experience rather than the person.