Bigger penis.

And from what I know, it depends on the woman and the mood they are in...at that time.
There is no rule or guide. (big/small, soft/hard, etc...and all points between and beyond...)

Personally, I take their generosity where I can get it and give how I can...as requested.
And even that isn't right at times, some just want to be taken.
So again, there is no rule or guide.

Get ready to be wrong no matter what you do.
In the end, you just have to try and give your best. Use the tools you're given.

My motto, I live to please.

 

Yeah, this has come up before.

I just want to be clear: I'm a huge fan of slappy-happy balls-deep doggystyle jackhammering. If I had something larger than my solidly average penis size, this might not be an option, and that would make me very sad.

 

Amen, sister.

I sometimes have to remind my husband that we can get to Poundtown if he puts in the work getting me suitably aroused, but he can't expect to just pop in there and go at it without me experiencing pain, which then in turn makes me not want sex, and that's just sad.

 

Well, it does but it doesn't.
Every lock has its key.
Depends on both.
Sometimes it matters, sometimes it doesn't

Unfortunately, it's not something you know until you try to unlock the treasure...even if you advertise.

Same goes for jackhammering...some love it, no matter the size, big or small...some don't.
Haven't had any complaints yet.

Sorry, don't agree with the philosophies above...I think it's a personal thing. Each to their own.
And again, it also depends on the moment.

 

First, @hamsterball , you just repeated what I said in more detailed fashion.
Second, I agree with @StreetPattern , for me, it's much harder to start the first dance than continue dancing, they typically want more.

Third, shallow assholes have many and varied reasons to do their selfish actions
...and express them uncaringly to you. (or worse, not...but still resent you for it)

Size (sorry, there's a difference between dicks and boobs...you're not sticking your boob inside of something...or at least usually - it may matter)
Shape
Health
Quantity
Time
etc...and so on...

Or you weren't able to continue at full because you were exhausted after hours of sex (and were only slightly softer or drier)
or, or, or ...

Hell, I've even been "dinged" and resented for not automatically cumming in sync with a woman,
despite giving her 3 raging orgasms before my finish.
That one time. (no exaggeration... )

And you "could" be the BEST a woman has ever had...doesn't guarantee she won't cheat...any more than a man may.
Or move on... Or be dissatisfied in some way... or, or, or...

There are people out there, that you are in a full and "loving" relationship with...who could care less how much you "give" during sex.
Shallow is shallow. Selfish is selfish.
That's it??? What have you done for me lately??
They want what they want, when they want it, how they want it.

You could be Superman...and they'd bitch (or not bitch) that you're not doing it right.
Or you could do it perfect...and they want more or something else.

My point is THIS
You have what you have. (big, small, curved, inbetween, whatever...and ladies, this goes for you and your boobs & pussy)
Enjoy it.
...Use it. Practice with it. Get good with your play.
Hopefully you'll find another that enjoys you...and continues to.

However, there are NO guarantees, NO rules...and everything MAY change.
C'est la vie.

Fuck'em or "Fuck'em".

 

Well, I can't speak for others, I know I just have what I have...and there hasn't been any issues at all.

If we're getting into "jackhammering" scenarios, I'd say for me, the rhythms & tone are like Led Zeppelin's "Whole Lotta Love"
But if we're in a slow groove, with hips a-grindin' then the rhythm & tone is more like Lenny Kravitz's "I Belong to You"

But each has its aspects if you're on the larger side...one is sure going for gusto...but there's never been an impact from the serious repetitive thrust,
even doggie-style or with legs full behind the head or any other deep maneuver. (I'd say it's the bending and posture that has more discomfort, if at all)

The slow grind of the other style will go in just as far...and if you're doing it right, hips circling & pressing pelvis against the clitoris...fully embraced by legs,
it's in longer and lingering. (and actually, you're more likely to hit the cervix this way than the other...at least in my experience)

...length is length...compression is compression...doesn't matter if it's fast or slow.

If there are any issues, it's typically as with any other...endurance, fumbling, someone bending it the wrong way (ow!),
as @OtherSyde said, getting a "wrong" angle...and so on. Rigidity counts too.
If you're tappin' a beat on your belly, you're going to make some smiles...but if you lose focus, then you're going to have to make up for "slack".
(of course, you could still be not diamond hard...and still have enough fullness to make them happy for some time...even after you cum)

IMHO, I'd say energy level and mood make more factors than any other.

 

Ok...some people are just over doing it...

‘I wanted a monster’ – man with a 10-inch penis gets a penoplasty enlargement

Oh well, I guess if a woman can get a triple zzz breast enlargement,
then a guy can get a even larger dick enhancement.

I don't get it...unless you can somehow advertise it.
Again, dicks are different than boobs.
One is up front and face level, the other is down below, hidden, and small when not "active"

Now this is the way to advertise...being "known" for being the largest...
Jonah Falcon, Man With World's Largest Penis, Frisked By TSA At California Airport

I'm sure it's a burden as well as a benefit.
Unrealistic Expectations anyone???
I'd actually like to see the documentary on him for perspective. (interesting image search though...)
But again still, it's not like he's walking around constantly erect with it hanging out his pants.

I have yet to have a woman just come up and grab me my johnson out of the blue and pull me into a sex scene.
(well, I did, kinda, I was delivering pizza...but that was once out of 30 years of being sexually active...and no proof that was the kicker)

 

BTW...I just had the opportunity to watch "Unhung Hero"
A documentary about penis size.

It was done by the comedian who proposed marriage and was denied by his ex on public TV at a NBA game. ...It went viral!!
And to make things worse...she told him the reason was that his dick was too small.
So he was obsessed with it, strangely open about the topic
...and decided to make a movie about it...and the search for an answer.

He went to all these medical professionals. (who told him he was below average, equivalent of an "A" cup for men)
He tried out all the enlargement tools and techniques. (all of which, don't work...and could be damaging)
He went all around the world, including the country known for the smallest on average (Korea)

He even met at the end, Jonah Falcon, the world record holder for size...who told him, it doesn't matter.
In his relationships, they often just "try him out" for curiosity sake. But it doesn't make anything better or relationships last longer.

One gay commentator said it doesn't matter...and if it DOES matter to a "Size Queen" ,
then don't go out with a Size Queen. (OMG, I love that name)

It's kind of strange, but interesting, especially since this guy really is open and obsessed about his equipment. (talking to anyone, even on the street)
But you should watch it. (it's on Netflix)

The statistics given through out are very interesting. (I didn't know humans were huge by comparison to the apes)

Conclusion - it doesn't matter to most.

(**I wonder if there's a documentary on boob size or pussy shape??? That would be interesting)

 

I wonder if it's because other gay men who are lovers actually tell them if their dick is good or not...so it's not ambiguous.
Then again, to be honest, it's a different hole...so that may be a factor too. Size is a different context there, some prefer smaller for that.

But I wouldn't be "put-down" by the term Size Queen...a person likes what they like, nothing wrong with that.
Just like a straight man or lesbian shouldn't be ashamed by liking big boobs...if that's their thing.
Sex is an individual thing...and if they're doing people they don't truly desire, then that's their choice and baggage.