Type A woman who is really a slave

I can hear that theme song now...

 

Honestly, whether the OP is real and whether this situation is total fiction or not has no significance to me - since I don't know this person, this started out as a strictly hypothetical situation to me anyways. And even if it's all fake, then so what? It still performed its function the exact same way - it inspired people to think, chat, socialize, etc. and discuss a possible situation, which is the purpose of a forum. My thoughts on the subject wouldn't change any even it were revealed to be fake.

And how exactly would they be "playing" us, even if it IS fake? It's not like they're really receiving anything from us - which is generally the point of trying to "play" someone (to get money, sex, possessions, etc.). They simply inspired us to voice our opinions on a possible situation. I don't think anyone got emotionally involved in this thread, so they really couldn't even call it proper "trolling."
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Don't close the handcuffs too tightly and circulation shouldn't be an issue. Except that doesn't always work with thin hands that are about the same diameter as the wrist, but that's also a problem with some leather restraints. The telltale abrasions from struggling in handcuffs might be a problem. Raw spots on body parts usually covered by clothing aren't an issue, the wrists are hard to keep covered.

EDIT--Bloody 'ell, I overlooked a lot of new posts.

 

Sorry lost track of this post. I was out curing World Hunger. I have no idea what other people post, or who and do not really care. I was banned , which is funny...but because I didn't like what someone said to an innocent attacking her and she seemed like kicking a puppy to me.
I am real, and my post is real. I never thought I would find "that one" that I would give up control to, and yes it freaks me out time to time. If you are serious about it, and really giving yourself to someone than I would think the natural thing would to be a little scared. If you are really doing it and go 100%.
I have a bunch of emotions now that I don't even know what they are. It might sound stupid, but I really do not know what they are, and at times it takes me a few days to process them .

 

How are you going to handle the financial aspect? You've posted that you're successful in business, so I'm guessing that you are financially comfortable. And you mentinoed buying a house together. Will you maintain your own accounts, investments, credit cards, vehicle title(s), etc. just in case this doesn't work out? What about the money for the house? I call it a financial safety net.

 

Ooh, that's an excellent question. I'm a big fan of having both joint and personal accounts. I learned that the hard way...

 

We have a business together, and the house will be in both of our names via the LLC. We will have a prenup I would suggest before we get married. We have discussed having joint account and separate ones as well . We have discussed in the past that this house will be mine always, but we will need to put things writing down the road. We really do not worry about money, and it will be a discussion for sure to be responsible.

 

As a Dominant I in no way support or endorse this scenario....at all, I've seen it before, many times....and all of them ended with women in tears of humiliation at a police station wondering why no one will give them a restraining order.

You seriously need to rethink ALL of this before its too late

 

on re reading, I think this is all a plot by @Plan9 to get me to come post

damn it, why cant I tag?

 

@cynthetiq broke the tags. They still work, just not like they used to.

 

What I'm seeing is a relatively normal (most certainly a subjective term) LTR/marriage
in many ways, with some strong D/s elements.

What I'm not seeing is a submissive woman giving herself 100% to a dominant man.

I don't see it working like a light switch, "on" when the s wants it on, "off" when the s doesn't want it on.

 

It depends what you find to be a submissive or a dominant. For me giving myself and heart, and want to be very sexual, and wanting to give myself to my man 100 percent and willing to obey every command...it is submissive to me.
We have talked a lot a bout what turns us on, and you know what....until you are dong it, you have no idea of what you really want. I know in my heart, I love him and I want to test our limits together.
I have to be totally honest with you, because I can...and you do not know me,
I love him on a different level, and I know everyone as heard that before, and I get it. I am not a dumb woman, and for me I am giving my all to him.
I am not the best at expressing feelings, and really I have not felt a lot of them.....We do not have money challenges, and that is not something I think about with us. I understand this is the top three issues with couples, but this is not an issue I think about ...ever really.
You can think what you want, and at times the way I post, I would be worried about me as well...I am not the best detail person expressing my feelings. I do not think I am the only person to have feelinga ever, and I know to others my buying a house with him before meeting..or giving myself to someone I have not met face to face could strike some as odd. I am not trying to justify it but in our business you work with people for a few years and then you meet one another.
I do not have a proven formula, I wish I did! I only know what works for me.

 

You've clearly passed the point where you're willing to consider any advice we give you. What are you hoping to accomplish by continuing this conversation with us?

 

Great question. I think or feel because I can not talk about this with anyone...I am just wanting to talk, and maybe by me saying it out loud I will understand my feelings better, or accept them.
It is strange for me because I have always been about control, and to want to give it up has been a long dream, but never found that person. Thank you for asking, and letting me rant, emotions are new for me. It's the best feeling in the World, and scary as hell at the same time.