Strange or weird feelings after your first sexual experience

The first time was just kissing kissing amd more kissing. I was enjoying what it was doing to her than whats happening to myself.

But the nextday I was at work and my lips would literally pull twitch and move. Totally out of control. One could see it twitching. I was baffled and freaked out at the same time. Later she told me that samething happened to her.

Any strange feeling you had after your first sexual experience?

 

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No strange feelings that I remember.

Maybe a good feeling along the lines of Finally!!.

 

I was very young when I first had sex. I was physically ready but not emotionally ready. It's a bit of a sordid tale, but suffice it to say, I didn't feel very good about myself or the circumstances.

I didn't get twitchy or anything like that, but I did get quite emotional.

 

Following the first time I had sexual intercourse (age 21), I was extraordinarily euphoric. I was practically walking on air.

 

I was also very young when I had sex. I thought I was more than ready, and immediately afterwards, I felt great, on top of the world. It wasn't until years later, in retrospect, that I realized that the girl and I had really just been using one another, for various reasons, and that the whole thing was unhealthy as hell.

Fortunately, that turned out to be the worst (emotionally and psychologically) sexual experience of my life. Everything since then was much healthier than that. Although I will say, if my memory serves me, though that first girl may have been narcissistic and manipulative, she had oral talent way beyond her years: that chick could suck like a vacuum cleaner.

 

That was surely true of my first experience, too. And I don't regret it in the slightest.

 

Yes, after my first experience I wanted another. Been pretty much like that ever since.

 

The first time, a woman for whom I had no feelings, and I'm very sure the lack of feelings was mutual, was Woo hoo!. After I first made love with my future wife, I was a guilty mess.

 

I met her in an AOL chat room.

She was almost ten years older.

She was also the same height as me.

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Strange or weird feelings? How about being totally underwhelmed by the whole process. It was kinda "Meh."

I recall standing in the hotel room shower later, rubbing my dick with some bar soap and thinking to myself:

"Is that it? Pfft! You've gotta be kidding. People write books and sing songs and kill each other over that?"

My first real girlfriend after being broken in was worlds better, but I almost totally gave up on sex, guys.

 

I'm pretty sure I've never been underwhelmed by any sexual experience, straight or gay.

But then, I'm an old horndog who's pushing 60 and still has to masturbate twice a day.

Sad to say, my wife isn't interested, she will probably outlive me, and we're monogamous, so chances are I won't have sex again.

 

I am very scared of that kind of possibility

 

That's pretty much the way it goes. Yeah, there are women my age who are interested in sex, but there aren't enough of them to go around.

 

After my first "real" kiss, I absolutely loved it, and all I wanted to do was kiss. Hanging out with boyfriends became solely about finding ways to sneak away somewhere and make out...but I guess that's not all that different from most pre-teens/teenagers.

After sex...well, as my first partner pointed out, I always kind of felt ashamed immediately afterward. It was very strange to me to go from being "The Virgin" to...well, "The Non-Virgin." I remember him saying to me, over the phone, shortly after we'd had sex the first time, "hey, how's that virgin thing workin' out for you?" and I was completely mortified.

 

When the orgasm subsides, the guilt and misgivings rush in, sure. Better to take care of the guilt and misgivings first.

 

Well, I was 18, and it had been drilled into my brain that "good girls" didn't have sex without a ring on their finger. I had thought enough about it at that point to realize I didn't really agree with that ("what if I don't get married 'til I'm 40?!"), but I was very uncomfortable with sex, for a long time.

 

You owe me $20.00 for bumping this thread back to life .

 

You drinks are on me when we meet for now thanks a bunch

 

, a cafe mocha made from scratch with some high cocoa percentage dark chocolate flakes would be great.

The more threads we have the better the chance of getting some conversation going. Heck, one of the days I might even write something worth reading, lol.