1. We've had very few donations over the year. I'm going to be short soon as some personal things are keeping me from putting up the money. If you have something small to contribute it's greatly appreciated. Please put your screen name as well so that I can give you credit. Click here: Donations
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Exploding Boobs: Donation vs Profit

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by genuinemommy, Jun 21, 2013.

  1. MeltedMetalGlob

    MeltedMetalGlob Resident Loser Donor

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    Given the title of this thread, I feel this clip is relevant:
     
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  2. Cayvmann

    Cayvmann Very Tilted


    It is yours to do with as you will. I think it is great that you donate, by the way. My child had to have donated milk. I am ever grateful that someone did so.

    I see no problem with you selling, but if it bothers you, you can sell enough to get the pump, then start donating again. Your comfort is important too, ya know?
     
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  3. I will not be breastfeeding because I'll have to go back on my medication after delivery to deal with a probable relapse. Where does one find milk that another mother is over producing?
     
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  4. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    Eats on Feets and Human Milk for Human Babies are both organizations that should have a local chapter.
     
  5. Thank you. I am going to look into this.
     
  6. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    You may also want to check out a website called Only the Breast.
     
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  7. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

  8. PonyPotato

    PonyPotato Very Tilted

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    Columbus, OH
  9. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    fflowley, thanks for posting the link to that article! Yes, it's relatively easy to contaminate the bottles that you pump into with salmonella - if you're washing your bottles in the dishwasher alongside cookware. Then the milk gets tainted as described. Also, if you don't wash your hands before handling pump parts, there's a good chance that things will be contaminated with whatever you've been handling in the workplace (assuming you're pumping at work) or at home. Also, if you don't change your nursing pads regularly it's possible to spread fungal infections.

    PonyPotato it's a very real issue, one that I wish I had a little more time to address.
    I've encountered moms who claim they're trying to feed their babies, asking for donations, but then turn around and sell it for profit. It makes me furious. I was very careful about who I gave my milk to - and made sure that I met the child/children my milk would benefit. I eventually settled on a single family with twins to give milk to, and chose to participate in a cooperative to get a little profit off some of the excess milk as well.

    But contamination is a super big issue. There are strict cleanliness standards that I maintain when I pump. The milk coop that I'm a part of has a very strict screening process and guidelines for keeping things sterile. The fact that it's a cooperative, too, makes me feel more confident that the women who are donating to the bank are taking it seriously - their livelihood is dependent upon their milk being untainted and safe.
     
  10. curiousbear

    curiousbear Terse & Bizarre

    Would you nurse babies beside littlegirly?

    We washed all baby stuff in dishwasher but in a separate round. We had to pump to fortify and out little monster got that preference stuck in him. Lol
     
  11. Alistair Eurotrash

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    I'm not quite clear. Do you want to keep over-lactating and are you happy about it? If not, could I suggest that you stop pumping?

    Do you stop at some point? If so, when?

    Of course, if you want to over-lactate, that's another matter.

    Edit: Never mind. Just noticed that this is an old thread - and saw your post from Saturday.
     
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  12. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    Yeah, you could suggest it. But then if I followed your advice I would be living in a terrible hell.
    I have worked very, very hard to decrease my supply to reasonable levels with only marginal success. I am an over-producer even if I don't pump. I have tried only nursing and not pumping - several times. In every instance I got clogged ducts. When those clogged ducts turned into a raging case of mastitis with a fever of 104*F I decided it wasn't worth trying anymore.
    My family has a history of being prolific lactators. It's good thing since multiples also run in the family, and feeding twins is not a daunting task when you can easily produce enough milk for quadruplets. The fact that I started pumping so early sealed my fate as a superlactator.
    There are a number of reasons why we turned to pumping and a bottle in the first place. My daughter has insufficient latch due to a tongue tie and an upper lip tie. She has a poor suck reflex as well. She damages my nipples nearly every time we try to breastfeed. Then of course there are the problems on my end - I have badly inverted nipples, which also happen to be deformed so they will never evert. Upon seeing my nipples, a lactation consultant asked, "Who ever told you you could breast feed in the first place?" With no maternity leave (grad students are so very abused in this way), I knew I'd need to pump at work and introduce a bottle relatively early anyway, so when it was obvious that my daughter was not eating enough from my breast, I pumped colostrum starting at day 2, and have been pumping ever since. I feel strongly that as long as I can produce milk for my child, I will lactate. I see it as a valuable part of motherhood, and wouldn't trade my choice to not formula feed for anything.
     
  13. mixedmedia

    mixedmedia ...

    Location:
    Florida
    I don't know, it seems a little wrong to sell it because then your milk will only end up with people who can afford to buy it. What about poor women who are having trouble with breastfeeding? It's one thing if you really need the money to get by. But if your primary aim is to supply moms with milk who can't do so on their own, then only making it available to the upper middle class and above is a little...creepy. to me. 'Cause no one in the middle to lower classes is going to be able to pay 1-5 dollars an ounce to feed a newborn.
     
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