I female ejaculated, and i'm embarrassed every time it happens. Help?

Hand. Always has to be hand.

And to the point where I'm fighting back, yelping, and trying to get away kinda hard. Uncomfortably hard. Gets me every time. I don't know about marks-- I don't shave (more of a trimmer), but I do know that I'm usually swollen, hot, and pink for a bit afterwards. Which is probably a combo of arousal + impact.

However, amusingly enough, if someone is smacking my ladybits with their erect penis, takes infinitely less impact to get me to squirt.

/more about Poetry than you ever needed to know. <3

 

Perhaps for the first time ever on TFP...I am at a loss for words....

Possibly because of all the blood rushing away from my brain....

 

Awwww, yeah. Breaking TFPers like it's 1999.

 

He has learned to make me do this recently . It is messy and really wet. Many woman want to do this. Most men would love to see it happen. My only complaint is if he goes at it with out towels.. I don't want to sleep in the wet spot. We have had friends who want to see it or have us teach them. No need to be embarassed.
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OPPS---- The female of couple wrote

 

You can teach someone to do that?

Not that I'd care to learn, my S/O's semen spot is enough, thank you.

Besides, when I orgasm I feel as if my entire insides are going to burst out of me. I would no more be aware of squirting then I would a bomb going off in my backyard.

I'm not sure if he'd even notice if I was squirting unless the fluid was rushing into his mouth. He's usually watching my face when I come. For some crazy reason, he likes the way it looks.

 

I do the same to my wife. I love her expressions

 

they DO still make rubber sheets, yes? why not be already lying ON the towels, instead of having to stop and get them into "proper" position? yes, squirting CAN be faked, too. Porno queens do it all the time. I'm not sure of the method used, but I THINK that some sort of soft rubber syringe is filled with a fluid, and then she uses her vaginal muscles to compress the syringe enough to make it "squirt".

 

True. I'm trying to remember your name.

 

Seeing as this has turned into a "Squirting" thread, I've been trying to get Seamaiden to squirt, but she thinks it's impossible for her. Before we were together, she thought it was a myth, but after me telling her I've been with 3 women who could do it and that she'd met one of them, she changed her opinion to just impossible for her. The problem here is she can't get past the "needing to pee" feeling, even though she knows she doesn't need to. Any advice?

 

Have you tried turning her off and then back on again?

More seriously, I'd advise shrugging your shoulders and moving on (enjoying what's good).

 

The thing is, when I get that urge to pee during orgasm and actually let it go, it's pee that comes out.

During arousal, the clitoris fills with blood and can stimulate the urethral opening and create the urge to pee. For older women like me, who are already experiencing changes in their urinary function overall (more frequent urges to pee, less bladder elasticity) it probably will be urine coming out.

The phenomenon of female ejaculation has to do entirely with a woman's Skene's glands. Rather than go into it, I've posted a link.

Skene's gland

The female ability to ejaculate is directly dependent upon the presence or functionality of these glands is in the individual woman.

Which is why I questioned the poster who claimed she could "teach" another woman to "squirt." If the woman's Skene's gland (or lack of it) renders her incapable of producing the fluid necessary to "squirt" I might consider it a minor miracle.

If your wife is a young woman, Lucifer, and has experienced no changes in her urinary habits due to having had children or menopause or something like that, it's sounds very likely this "urge" she's having during orgasm could be female ejaculate at the urethral opening.

 

My wife is actually mid-50's, post-menopausal, so perhaps it is the need to pee after all.

 

Yeah, probably is. Bugger it is too, holding back the full force of an orgasm to avoid urinating. I usually try to completely empty my bladder before the SO and I start really getting into it.

 

She does that too, but still has the feeling. And she's holding it back to prevent any embarrassment. I don't care, cause there are towels on the bed, but I don't want her preventing an orgasm cause of this. Do you find your orgasms are different as an older woman?

 

In a way, maybe they are a bit different. I haven't really though about it before. Maybe less intense routinely but I can certainly have my socks knocked off by one occasionally. I think I'm just pleased to be sexually active and to still find sex exciting. That's enough for me. If it continues on this way, I hope to still be sexually active into my seventies. Eighties might be pushing it, but you never know.

I haven't sought any medical advice on my urinary issues. From what I've read, it's fairly natural, but I do wonder if there's some sort of treatment (non-invasive) that could remedy or at least relieve it somewhat.

Yeah, even after I empty my bladder I can still experience the urge sometimes, at just the wrong moment.

 

I had an ex who said that she had never squirted until she was well into her twenties, and at that point for the first time had a lover who found her g-spot. The times I was able to make her squirt (and also the times I made other exes squirt) all happened when I rang the g-spot chimes. I think if you're giving a woman g-spot orgasms and she's not squirting, she's just not a squirter. If she's not squirting and you're not buzzing the g-spot, find that and try.

 

I think that's probably right. If a woman has the glands for squirting, hitting the G-spot would be the best way to get those juices built up and in motion.

 

Wow so if a girl ejaculates there would be a puddle??? How much is that? I am so curious. Perhaps should try to get her there...

 

Go for it

 

This is all very interesting to me. I already get so wet how would I know if I "squirted" also? What does it feel like???