Sexual fantasy

Well I think some things are better as a fantasy Didn't quite go as planned, night had to end with a tbc! Little remote worked and was kinda exciting not knowing when you might get buzzed! I never did see him pressing the buttons on the remote but he soon learned which was button number 4 - and it had a good range! Not sure if he thinks I'm hot or crazy or what!

 

Atleast you had fun with it.



What is button number 4?

 

Button 4 is the strongest The rest just don't quite hit the spot! Took him one press of each button to realise which one was the one to go for! Fast learner I guess!

 

At least he was pushing tge button.

 

In this thread, round the world is far more fitting...

 

"yes, please" sums it up for me

 

There is an erotic story in there somewhere. LOL

 

Well this one didn't have a happy ending! When drunk quite happy to play with buttons n flirt n act like he loved the remote. Once sobered up now ignoring me/ acting like nothing has happened! I have been to his flat a few times to visit his flatmate and he just completely blanks me. I even went when I knew my friend was at they gym, he then went into his room n came out with my shoes that I'd left by accident - handed me the shoes then went back into his room. I was left just standing in the hall way!

 

OK, based on what you've just told me, the guy seems like a total loser and not really into you. May I advise looking for a guy who appreciates both you and your fantasies sober or drunk?

 

I'm gonna agree with the Lantern here. I'm sorry this prick is cold-shouldering you. I hope this negative experience doesn't sour you on finding someone who's genuinely into you, who truly appreciates you and all your kinky glory, and who wants to give you a buzz now and again. Not just because he's some drunk jerk who doesn't know what he's doing, but because he loves you and loves to make you happy and get you off.

 

(My) Curiosity #1: only one poster mentioned gaining his "red wings." Admittedly I've only done that during the last two days of a lover's "moon-sign" time but she tasted absolutely scrumtious and I'm aiming to work backwards and check out the earlier days. I know that on the days leading up to that time they taste… mmm… metallic(?). Not "bad," just different. Some lovers seem to be embarrassed(?) about the makeup of their "discharge" and resist my interest. Two have seemed gratified(?) at my unusual(?) interest and not pulled away or otherwise resisted.
Curiosity #2: only one poster mentioned "rimming" and indicated it was too iffy for her (at least I think the poster is a woman). When I was 24 I was invited into the travel-trailer bed of a 54 y/o teacher on a 3-day Memorial Day weekend with a friend at a remote group of high, mountain hot-springs after dark, accompanied by another woman/teacher who went off on her own search for gratification/pleasure. Anyway, we gathered plenty(!) of firewood for a bonfire and she volunteered to give me a back rub afterwards — that turned into a bit of rimming and then penetration — that turned into rolling me over and "massaging my prostate" with a finger while she went down on me. I screamed and felt like I'd come close to coming apart when I came. Since then, I've throroughly enjoyed surprising 4 lovers with a finger (to see that there's no "fudge" stored), followed by my tongue and all have been "open" to the experience, even to the point of dispensing with the last of their virginity.
Curiosity #3: how many guys speak of… well… err… bedding(?) a "girl." Just a thought, but I prefer women — there's something about age and experience that trumps youth and fear every time. Looks, to me, are far less important than an adventurous attitude.
Curiosity #4: only two (that I recall) women posters wrote of "squirting." Sadly, so very few folks seem aware that women have a prostate — which makes perfect sense if you realize that at conception, we all have the same equipment. It's just that that equipment develops differently in each gender. Track down the description of a woman's prostate at the - clitorus - dot - com.
These days, I find that my "fantasies" consist of repeat performances/experiences. The different responses add up to enough variation, for me. But then, I'm a certified "old guy" who is comfortable with women. *he grins*
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Oh, I forgot to add that after the first time I was "rimmed" and had my prostate massaged until orgasm, I wrestled with the idea that I might be the least bit "queer." Sheesh. But see, I was truly young — in so many ways — back then.

 

Sitting down and trying to rationally think out my sexual fantasies, I've come to realizes that the grand ones are about validation as much as the acts themselves.

Take the Orgy for example. Sure, with the groping and the rubbing and the slipping and sliding it's amazing. But what's really getting me going is the idea that all these people really, really want to have sex with ME. Being enthusiastically welcomed to an orgy is the pinnacle of belonging. No wonder it's de rigueur in cults.

 

That is one of my fantasy too! To restrain her and give her too much to take. some day...

 

Nuru massage... I'm a simple cayvmann

 

Mine is to enter in a couple's room on their wedding night & fuck the bride before her husband....

 

You probably don't get invited to many weddings?

 

Nice first post on the board.

 

Actually, I think his first post was on Noodle's profile asking if she wanted to be friends.

 

And the PM a few months ago. He's special. Apparently.